Pray my husband will come home and work on our marriage and restore our love. Pray my husband doesn’t break our wedding vows. Pray he doesn’t have a girl friend. pray he will call me and say he coming home. Pray his family and friends do not stop us from getting back together. Pray for him to let us start over again in our new home we we paid down on. Pray he will come back home and get me. Pray he did pay our rent for this month because we are moving to a new place.
I just wanted to encourage you. I know when your marriage is in trouble you can feel so heartbroken, and just like…everything is upside down and backwards. I don’t know how often you speak with your husband, but if you do speak with him… Here are a couple of things that have helped me.
Marriages fall apart when people get comfortable. Comfort leads to stagnant relationships without growth, and if something isn’t growing…it’s dying. You have to TRY everyday. You have to show your spouse everyday that you love them. The root cause of many splits is that people don’t feel valued by a spouse. They don’t feel loved, SEEN, HEARD, or UNDERSTOOD…If you guys can get in a place where he is home…I suggest working on this first.
I would also like to add that anything we do of our own power…doesn’t have long term staying power…you can’t change your heart…and you really can’t change the condition of your husband’s heart…only God can do that.
So my specific prayer for you is that God will give you peace in your situation, and that he will ease your pain. That he will show you the areas you need to focus on, and give you the words to say to your husband. I pray that you will draw near to him, and let him hold you. That you will know that you have a purpose, and you were made so very specifically…with love….
I pray God will move in your husband’s heart, and allow him to remember the love he had for you in the beginning. I pray he will fill him so full of love that it will break him. That no hate or strife can live in his heart. I pray God will fill the void in him, and that he won’t feel the urge to seek out anything else. I pray that nothing will tempt him, and that he will be compelled to be honest with you, God, and himself.
My heart is with you. I know how you feel, and just know I am rooting for you. God is a God of love, and there is nothing Satan likes more than winning at God’s game. Marriage is intended to make us strong….not make us feel weak. Keep fighting sweetheart!
Love to you!